caregiving

My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We met in college, dated on and off, and got married 13 years ago. We decided to wait a few years before having kids so we could enjoy things like traveling, sleeping in on weekends, and having control over our…

When a child is diagnosed with Pompe disease, they’re not the only person affected. The disease changes everything for the entire family. Suddenly, schedules and priorities shift. One of the hardest things for me as a parent was figuring out how to talk to my other children about what…

When our daughter Caroline was diagnosed with Pompe disease through newborn screening in 2018, our world turned upside down. We were suddenly lost, searching for answers amid a flood of tests, labs, and medical opinions. We chose to start enzyme replacement therapy (ERT) within her first 12 months.

Talking about mental health isn’t the easiest thing to do. Sharing our feelings can be uncomfortable, and asking for help may seem like exposing a part of ourselves we’d rather keep hidden. I’d always shared my feelings openly and leaned on family and friends. For a long time, I thought…

This summer, for the first time, I made a big decision to reach out for help for my oldest son, Cayden, who is 7 and was born with infantile-onset Pompe disease. A nurse attends school with him every day during the school year, but in the past, I’ve declined…

Being a parent can be exhausting. Whether the child is a newborn, a toddler, or even a bit older, there are some days when we hear the alarm go off or wake up to our kids crying and mumble, “Just five more minutes, please!” I knew what I was getting…

Last week, my 4-year-old son, Cayden, had a telehealth appointment with a pediatric psychologist. She works in the behavioral health clinic at the children’s hospital where we take Cayden for all his other specialists. The appointment was recommended by his metabolic doctor, whom we see every three to…

A little over a year ago, I wrote a column discussing the topic of family planning. Recently, we discovered that our family will be growing by one! We have lots of planning to do before my new baby comes next January. Of course, we are happy about the news…

A few months ago, I had to make the hard decision to pull my 4-year-old son, Cayden, out of his preschool class. It wasn’t easy because I knew how much he enjoyed it. At the time, though, his health was at stake. Cayden has infantile-onset Pompe disease, which…

When I became pregnant with my son, Cayden, at the young age of 15, I knew I had to start working as soon as possible. So, the week before I turned 16, I began my job hunt. Getting hired as a teen can be a challenge in itself, and being…