parenting

My 4-year-old son, Cayden, has been seen by many different specialists over the course of his life. I often wonder how he feels about all of the medical appointments. At this age, most of his peers only see the doctor for well-child visits or if they become sick. In…

Awhile back, I donated my 4-year-old son Cayden’s used adaptive equipment. He’d outgrown his old stander, so we no longer had any use for it. While I was sad to see these things go — because it’s a reminder that he is getting older and bigger — I was…

One of the first things people notice about my 4-year-old son, Cayden, is his lusciously long locks of hair. While some people love it, others aren’t so ecstatic that he’s a boy with long hair. I personally don’t believe that long hair is for a specific gender, but not everyone…

In the United States, every child gets tested for a multitude of rare diseases and conditions at birth. However, each state picks and chooses which rare diseases and conditions they’ll screen for. Pennsylvania, where I live, added Pompe disease to their newborn screening panel in February 2016, a…

Living with or caring for someone with a rare disease means that life is often hectic. Between the endless appointments with specialists, infusions and other therapies, getting sick, and other responsibilities, it can feel like there’s barely any downtime. Eventually, one grows accustomed to the lifestyle, which makes things…

Soon, I will attend a meeting to discuss transitioning my 4-year-old son, Cayden, to elementary school during the next school year. I’m both nervous and excited about the meeting and the transition. I knew this day would come, but it feels as if it snuck up on us faster than…

From the time he was born four years ago until now, my son, Cayden, has struggled with eating orally. Because of his infantile-onset Pompe disease, Cayden has weak muscles all over his body, including his mouth and the muscles involved in swallowing. He can’t swallow properly and often would…

With Christmas right around the corner, I’ve had many people in our family ask what they can get my 4-year-old son, Cayden, for the holiday. A lot of toys aimed at children his age aren’t easy for him to use, which makes buying gifts a bit difficult. Cayden has…

My 4-year-old son, Cayden, completed a sleep study in October. We’ve been waiting for his pulmonary specialist to call with the results, and we finally received them. While we didn’t get the news we were hoping for, I’m relieved that we were able to complete the study in…

As parents, we tend to put our children before ourselves — especially when they have special needs. Some of our children require numerous therapies and appointments with specialists. They may also need more help than other children their age. As a result, parents must make some sacrifices from time…